Remember, we just leared from JD himself - Lone Wolf was destined never to have a serious girlfriend. I reckon he inflicted that monastic lifestyle on all his students, and that's why they are extremely gifted - from extreme frustration!
Naar's next champions should be female, bikini clad, and overly friendly and in a generation the kai will be all but wiped out
Maybe with big smiles on their faces, but wiped out nonetheless!
Why is it that females, particularly powerful or gifted ones, are routinely evil in fantasy fiction? I think it's our collective psyche bringing up years of fear and oppression of women. Of course, this goes double if said evil women get hot for other evil women too.
Soon you pathetic mortals will know what it is like to contend against a master of the Dark Arts!